Thursday, May 26, 2011

Rainbow Nation

 want to thank everyone who has been reading my blogs. Your comments  and many more emails have been really encouraging to me. It's nice to know that I have people who are willing to go along on this journey with me. 

Some of the Kids during movie night

I'm  sitting here enjoying a nice glass of wine with my roommate at a lodge down the road from Refilwe, we have been here a few hours and we both don’t want to go back, just yet.  My roommate came to Africa a month and a half after I did, and I wasn't sure how it was going to be living with an older lady. She is 67 years old. Honestly, at first, I was not thrilled with the idea. It’s not that I have anything against older people it’s just that living with them, well….. that's a different story. Part of my concern came with the fact that I love having the children/youth and friends over to my place for movie and game nights and I was afraid she wouldn’t be okay with this. What I have previously known of older people is that they like to go to bed early.  I could just picture her saying "No company past 6:00pm, no exceptions!"  But I was wrong, very wrong. I've been living with her 7 weeks now and she stays up later than I do, cooks delicious food, welcomes any company that I have, and is becoming a good friend of mine. As much as I hate stereotypes I  guess I do fall guilty of them from time to time.


 This past weekend I went to Africa Abalze to help Leah and Piet with a career camp during the weekend. Even though I’m now exhausted I’m glade I was at the camp. An organization sponsored a 100 teenagers from rural areas to come to the camp. We had guest speakers come in to talk about their definition of success.  For most of these kids it was a great opportunity for them as many of them were encouraged to never give up regardless of the hardships that come their way. Many of these kids come from backgrounds of poverty and broken families and they realized that it is up to them to make a change to do things differently for their future and their future families. Some of the things that were taught were to never give up, don’t let hardships stop you from pursuing your goals, and to get anywhere in life we need to be able to work hard. I think that these teenagers left encouraged and excited for their future.


Making Worm Tea
Things at Refilwe are going very well. We have a YWAM group that is here for a few weeks and it’s been nice having them around. The projects that we have been working on around Refilwe are the Worm Farm and the Tree Nursery. Refilwe sells the worm tea as fertilizer in hopes that they can become self sufficient. Previously Refilwe was relying on donations but because of the declining economy they are coming up with ways of making income for their ministry. I have really enjoyed doing work outside in the worm farm and tree nursery and it’s nice to have a break from people.


I now have an African name that people are starting to call me. It’s Lerato which means love.  They wanted to give me an African name because they say that 'even though i'm white on the outside i'm African on the inside.'
 Oh Africa, I only have 4 more months left in this wonderful country but the things that i'm learning and the growth that is happening I hope will last a lifetime. In the future I know that short term missions will be a part of my life and that I hopefully will get to travel to different parts of the world, but living in a different country is an opportunity that I might never get again.  I love traveling and living in different countries and experiencing their culture.  I’m thankful that God has given me this chance to live with the people of Africa.  



Being here has made me realize the important things in life and what I want from it.  It’s interesting how going 10,000 miles away really shows you who your true friends are, the ones who are still there to encourage you and support you in your decision, and sometimes even the friendships that matter draw closer. "Side by side or miles apart, true friends stay close to your heart.” 










4 comments:

  1. Hey Ashlee! So nice to read your update! Lerato/love is a perfect name for someone with such a big and loving heart =) I'm glad to hear that you are happy and I'm sure that you will continue to bring love and hapiness to those you enounter for the rest of your life. That is a cute picture of you between Abel and the other gentleman. You've always had such a beautiful smile that is contagious to those around you =) Keep doing your thing and I will talk to you soon!
    Love, Joel

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  2. Ashlee, wonderful Post (Rainbow Nation)! I don’t want to know what Worm Tea is, I’m sure. As for older folks going to bed early, your mother and I are really trying to stay up past 9:00 PM, but it seems we’re programmed with a long sleep cycle!. We are up by 6:45am (a new leaf) and are getting our chores done (feeding: chickens; horses; dogs; fish; people- usually in that order), getting a walk in and reading the news, if time permits.
    We happy you home sick (with all respect) and are glad you are finding strength in yourself as you continue this journey.
    Love, Dad

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  4. Hi Ashlee, What a wonderful post. I do love hearing about your adventures! Also how wonderful that you are able to see opportunities in situations that can be difficult. Yet you always look for, and find, the bright side. What an amazing ability. Keep up the good work and do explain what worm tea is. I assume it is not for human consumption.....?

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